Reding is something that I liked since my childhood but It wasn’t until my teenage years I didn’t know about books the only books I knew about were textbooks and notebooks haha! anyway, I remember seeing others read and thinking, “That’s so cool, I want to read too!” But at the time, I felt like books were for “cool” people, and I couldn’t afford them. Eventually, after becoming mature I finally thought to buy the book so I bought 2 books which is The Subtle Art of Not Giving a fck and Ikigai.
I liked both books but I picked up The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck I have two specific reasons, why I made this choice, and I’ll share those reasons later in this review. For now, let me just say that this book felt like the perfect starting point for someone like me—someone new to reading. I decided to write this book review in Q&A format because you will find dozens of book reviews on this book, but the Q&A style allows you to quickly find the answer you may looking for also it is reader-friendly and I enjoy writing in this format. Let’s start with the review.
Q1: What is The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck about?*
- This book emphasizes how we should not think and give our attention to everything, and prioritize ourselves and our loved ones once more rather than the things we can’t control, Moreover, it teaches real happiness is how we tackle our problems, accept that we are ordinary human beings, embracing failure as a lesson not giving up. The book highlights the power of saying no, taking responsibility for our choices, understanding that we can’t always be positive, and ultimately, coming to terms with the reality of death. You will get the harsh reality check from this book easily and understandably.
Q2: Why did you choose The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck as your first book?
- There were two specific reasons for me to choose this book, the first reason was that when I was searching for my first read I found this book in most of the recommendation blogs, reels, and videos. The second reason is personal- I am very much an emotional person I find myself thinking for others more than myself I used to struggle with saying no, fearing it would hurt someone, etc etc. and this habit took a toll on me. Therefore I wanted to improve myself and learn to love myself and remove those things from my life. The title itself says and that’s what attracted me to choose The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck as my first book.
Q3: What did you like about the book?
- I loved the author’s honest and straightforward approach, which makes it so convincing and relatable. One of my favorite parts of this book is that if any problems arise because of our past choices, we should be able to take responsibility for them and face them. Embracing this mindset helps us grow and become more mature.
Q4: How did the book make you feel or impact you?
- This book had a great impact on my perspective. It made me realize that I don’t need to care about every little thing in life and that accepting struggle and discomfort is an important part of growth. It permitted me to let go of the pursuit of constant happiness and focus on what truly matters to me, such as my values and relationships.
Q5: What are the key takeaways or lessons from this book?
- The key lessons from the book are:
- We all have limited energy, so choose what you care about wisely.
- Embrace failures and challenges as part of the growth process.
- Let go of the need to be all-time positive and be perfect.
- Life is about making choices—take responsibility for your decisions and actions.
Q6: What did you learn from this book, and how are you applying it in your life?
- One of the biggest lessons I learned from this book is the importance of setting boundaries and focusing on myself more rather than trying to make others happy. I’ve started prioritizing my mental peace more and saying no to the things that I don’t want. For example, if I’ve argued with someone, I no longer dwell on it after they leave. Instead, I shift my focus to things that bring me joy, like listening to music or doing my work. I have started doing these constantly and it made me feel happier and more at peace with myself.
Q7: Would you recommend this book to others? If so, to whom?
- Yes, I would definitely recommend this book to anyone looking for practical advice on personal growth. It’s especially useful for people feeling overwhelmed by people’s expectations. However, I’d suggest it’s more suited for young adults and above, as the language and tone may not appeal to everyone. If you want a straightforward yet simple guide to living more intentionally, this book is for you.
Conclusion:
- Overall, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck* is one of the great books that offer practical advice for living a fulfilling life. The simple and humorous approach makes it engaging. If you are looking for self-help advice and focus on what really matters, this book is a must-read. Happy Reading!
- You can buy this book from Amazon.
Have you read The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck*? What did you think about it, I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments!
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